The Internet is embryonic with nutrients and possibilities. Nuisance? Contamination? Menacing danger? Garbage? Advertisements? Training? Expansion? Beauty? Compassion? Growth? Knowledge. What are you looking for? Do you have desire to grow? Learn?Arial text is water.
When you plant an e-seed... It can be fertilized and nourished, or it might die. Perhaps it will blossom and grow. Without enough water or nutrients, it goes to the “E-compost” bin.
Regarding online "personal" contact... Understanding that you have the desire to know whom you communicating with, getting to know someone, I have found the following:
Interested in the opportunity to get to know someone, shortly after I learn basic facts about them, I NEED TO SEE THEM or MEET THEM (if possible). Perhaps there will attraction on the first date. Perhaps not. A seed has been planted. Perhaps there will be a second date. Perhaps a relationship will begin to develop. If it is not fertilized, properly, the seed might die.
- Arial text can inform someone basic information about personal qualities and characteristics. i.e. - FACTS.
- A message that is typed and read, says something about their train of though and priorities. Does it say something about personality? Maybe. Maybe not.
- Upon initial contact, pictures speak louder than words (of course).
- Moving pictures are remembered and are more informative (of course).
- When in face-to-face, sharing in conversation, the depth and HONESTY of a message can be conveyed and read more easily. i.e. - Reality and sincerity is more easily read and harder to hide, with eye contact.
- Time spent thinking about a certain though or item is worth something. When getting to know someone, that you are perhaps interested in developing a real worthwhile relationship with... Eye contact, with conversation, an exchange of thoughts, feelings and insight is a more fruitful, informative, worthwhile “expenditure".
At an initial meeting, when sharing in face-to-face conversation, thoughts and desires can be shared. IF feelings
grow, then more thoughts and feelings are devoted to the person (of the "estro-gender" ;-). Sensitive warmth? Compassion? Feelings. Contact. Devotion? A relationship is developing. Is it committed? How much time is devoted to thoughts, for the companion? What is the nature of the time?Is there any personal contact? If there is any... Is it receptive and cordial? Compassionate? Or... is it simply congeniality, which can be mutually enjoyed, placidly. How often do you see the individual? Is the time together diminutive and, gradually less receptive? What is the nature of the time spent together? Committed or plutonic?
Cordial or plastique? Loyal or temporary? Get to know each other and where/how thoughts and feelings are devoted.After a few chances for an exchange of emails or notes and, perhaps a phone call... Seeing and perhaps touching (perhaps with the imagination) can plant a seed. How is the seed germinating? If I am never in their presence...
What am I missing? Relative to the time spent together, the sharing feelings and thoughts (?) and the personal contact (of WHATEVER nature) is what can make a relationship flourish and grow, and be enjoyed.